Approaching women you like

Approaching women you likeApproaching women you like

It’s not something new when a man seeks for something to catch a woman’s attention.  This is the first step that you need to master for you to hit up on the one you like.  Approaching women is an obstacle that not all of men can overcome.  The right approach is critical where you need to be familiar with a lot of things like the mindset that you should carry with you, the right kind of eye contact and so much more.  So let’s start with all the steps you need to have to drive you to success of getting the woman you want.

Setting the right mindset for yourself – preparation plays an important part before you even get to apply the pickup techniques that you have learned or are trying to learn.  First, Confirm to yourself if you are sure about hitting up on hot women you like.  Second, trust and be confident with yourself that you’ll be able to approach the woman you like.  Last, motivate yourself that you’ll meet and be able to approach any woman you like.

Eye contact – “the eyes are the windows to one’s soul.”  I’m sure you’ve heard about this a lot and it would be helpful if you pay importance to the eyes.  Here are some things that you need to be aware about the eyes:

  • Horizontal scan – when a woman looks to your left and right eyes repeatedly and you both are close to each other is when you can go in for a kiss.
  • Vertical scan – a sign that she’s checking you out when she looks at you from head to toe.  Most of the time, this shows that a woman is interested.
  • Test of eye contact – being uncertain once you are inches away from a woman is the worst thing you can do which is why you need to create eye contact before you even approach her.
  • Dilated pupils – if her pupils are dilated, then she is really interested in you.

The approach – the first part of the approach is to make eye contact with whom you like.  Next is when you or she smiles and if she or you smiles back.  After that, check out if she gives you confidence to approach her, if she does, then go over to where she is and start with a “Hi.”  Wait until she will say “Hi” back at you and if she does, then you can start with the conversation.  This is one of the safest ways to approach a woman.  Although basic, it is important that you don’t skip any of the steps.

Knowing everything about approaching women, the signs and everything else in that first phase of getting to know a woman at any place and time, you are now more equipped to meet them.  This is the best way for you to go since you will be hitting up on women who actually has interest in you and not someone who would make a fool out of you.




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